Do You Hate Hallmark Holidays? Unleash New Passion on Valentine’s Day!

Is it time to shake things up in your love life and create more passion, fun, and  intimacy?  Relationships can’t be sustained on past memories or with the same gifts year after year.  So step outside of the ‘Hallmark-Have-tos” and do something different this year!     Tony Robbins likes to say, “Your life is […]

10 Top Tips to Stay Focused this week…

Ever seem a little scattered? Do your business goals seem elusive and just out of reach? Are you frustrated at the end of the day because you never completed what you needed to? Are you so scattered that you don’t even have time to read this post? If so, then here are the Top Ten […]

The Best Holiday Gift Ever…

Last night, my wife asked that dreaded question, “What should we get the kids for Christmas this year?” My mind immediately flashed to pictures of sitting on the couch with my daughter flipping through endless pages of American Girl, Target, and Toys-R-Us ads, and I groaned. You have heard the Golden Rule, “Do unto others […]

Men, Women, and Relationships – Find Humor In Your Differences!

Tune in to overhear a deep and meaningful conversation between Elaine & Roger. You will laugh out loud as you hear the differences between the male and female perspectives. Finding humor in your relationships will add many happy years to it!

The Number 1 Red Flag That Your Marriage or Relationship Is Headed for Disaster

Guys, if your wife stops talking, start worrying! The topic of marriage and relationships consistently comes up in my coaching. I particularly enjoy working with clients on those issues relating to relationships because although marriage can be a great source of emotional turmoil and pain, it can also be the greatest source of happiness and […]

Be a better lover!

Want to be a better lover? Want your partner to love you in a way that really matters to you?  Understand Your Partner’s  “Love Languages” to Create a Better Relationship Gary Chapman has a great book called, “The 5 Love Languages” The premise of the book is that we all experience Love in five general […]

Tips For a Better Relationship…Think Zen

Stillness is what creates love. Movement is what creates life. To be still and still moving – this is everything. -Do Hyun Choe In the stillness, we can most easily connect with our true self. Putting movement in our lives creates energy and emotion…uniting the two as one allows God to flow through us! That […]

Tips For a Better Relationship… Opposites attract

When it comes to relationships sometimes what attracts our partner to us the most is the area that we are weakest in. An introvert attracts an extrovert or an organized person attracts a disorganized person. Relationships start to lose energy when the focus is shifted to how the other person is not the same as […]

Pull out the Fix-It Hammer Second, not First!

How many times has something been broken, and when our first solution for fixing the problem doesn’t work, we result to brute force? This rarely works, and usually produces results that are the exact opposite of what we are trying to accomplish. But, in that moment, losing ourselves to the frustration feels great! I personally […]

Improve Your Relationships – It’s All About Your Communication

Hallelujah ~ Praise the Lord! Have you heard the one about the priest who trained his horse to “stop” by saying “Hallelujah”, and “go” by saying “Praise the lord?” He went riding one day and a snake spooked his horse. The horse became terrified and took off at a full gallop. The horse was so […]

Focus On Your Relationship & Marriage: The Greatest Aphrodisiac

You are probably wondering, “Is it an oyster that he is talking about this week? Is it an ointment? Is it something sexy from that shop down the street?” Wrong answers, try again. One morning last week I found myself in a deep conversation with my wife and it was going down a direction that […]